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Nicholas Bronson's avatar

Funny, I read Standford experiment and immediately thought of the prison experiment, not the marshmallow one.

Interestingly, there is an alternative view on the marshmallow experiment. Traditionally it’s supposed to be evidence that developing delayed gratification in children leads to better outcomes for them in life.

However, the children in the experiment who were least likely to show delayed gratification and wait were also those from lower socioeconomic backgrounds. These children not only grew up with less access to luxuries (such as marshmallows) but also with a very different experience of people, particularly adults; as a result, they’re far less likely to trust adults who have lied to them in the past or failed to come through for them.

This changes the calculus significantly, no longer is it “If I wait, i’ll get two marshmallows instead of one”, but “If I wait they said i’ll get two marshmallows, but it might be a trick, they might change their mind, or I might miss out for some other reason. If I eat this one now, at least i’ll have gotten one marshmallow”. A perfectly reasonable response.

Why do they have less optimal outcomes than those who could wait? I imagine for the same reason that, statistically, you’re less likely to be doing as well as Elon, who raised himself up by his bootstraps with nothing but his own smarts and an inherited emerald mine in south africa, or Trump, who built a real-estate empire from absolutely nothing, just a multi-million dollar starting investment from his wealthy father.

Oddly enough, when you start the race half-way along, you have more chance of winning it. Who knew.

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Marita Sullivan's avatar

Being able to ‘delay gratification’ is a hallmark of ‘adulting’ isn’t it?

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